
If you’re curious about what a Korean Woody Allen film would be like,
Yoon-ki Lee’s My Dear Enemy makes a fine case study. I say this because it’s a human-scale comedy of relationships that’s nevertheless curiously expensive-looking. It also has a jazz score — more of a jazz score than I’ve ever heard in an East Asian movie, anyway — composed by a Korean, but recorded by American players in Massachusetts. These may sound like the ingredients of one big mismatch, and maybe they are, but at least the feel is distinctive.
The jauntily shifty Byung-woon, a hoodie-and-sportcoat-clad layabout who’s also quite hardworking in his layabout’s way, gets an unwelcome visit from Hee-soo, his frowning ex-girlfriend. She’s come to collect an outstanding loan of 3.5 million won — only like $3000, but still — and, by some miracle of intuition, knows she’ll find her debtor at the racetrack. In the morning. Byung-woon assures her he can rustle up the money if, though not in so many words, she just drives him around all day while he hits up a series of random acquaintances and other old girlfriends for a few thousand won here, a few thousand won there.
This is all the plot the movie offers, and almost more than it needs. It’s one of the more effectively minimalist stories I’ve seen in recent cinema, revealing apparent volumes about its co-protagonists while we watch what is ostensibly little more than Byong-woon performing dozens of small variations on his carefree, ingratiating persona. Meanwhile, Hee-soo performs dozens of small variations on her furrowed brow as she meets countless hitherto unknown players in her former lover’s life. Better than the revelations themselves is the fact that they really
aren’t revelations; each fact that surfaces floats on a raft of new questions. We never find out exactly what went sour between Byung-woon and Hee-soo, other than the money thing, and the specifics of the latter’s relationships with all his microlenders remain intriguingly occluded. As they should.
I instinctively want to see a tale like thus told on the cheap, maybe with stolen 16mm footage on unsuspecting public streets or in one long take on standard-definition video. Alas, Lee went with what I would consider a high gloss, peppering the film with bothersomely expensive-looking shots. This isn’t much of a complaint in the scheme of things, but a form-substance mismatch is a form-substance mismatch, however slight.

I recently asked a Korean film critic what I consider the prime question of that nation’s cinema: how on Earth do Korean filmmakers pull off so much melodrama so unobjectionably? Answers have always varied, but one common response is that melodrama is so deeply ingrained in Korean culture that, by now, they can actually execute it with some degree of subtlety and respect for the audience. I’ve always found these two elements lacking in the Anglophone variety, and even nearby in East Asia the situation is bad: Japanese melodrama, for instance, is so maudlin and false that it surely must stand at the brink of official recognition as a national embarrassment.
While it’s unclear if
Dong-il Shin’s My Friend and His Wife qualifies as melodramatic by Korean standards, its story looks positively soap-operatic to Western eyes. It’s got a dead baby in the first act, a hellish conflagration in the last, an act of penitential suicide to finish it off, and the running theme of friendship’s honor tested by some of the most harrowing circumstances imaginable. I’m beginning to sense that this might be the predominant theme of modern Korean narrative: once forged, and no matter how abused or neglected, the bond of friendship — as well as all its attendant balance sheet — is escapable only in death, and maybe not even then. (The associated edict of “bros before hos” also seems important.)
As much as I enjoy watching Korean movies, I rarely feel like any individual one gives me a whole lot of insight into Korean society or culture. But this one emphasized one quality in particular to me: when Korean dudes are tight, they’re
tight. This might be a mandatory-military-service-country kind of thing, and indeed, Jae-moon and Ye-joon, the buds in question here, met during their two years in the ranks. Jae-moon becomes an entrepreneurial fried-chicken cook (which is a thing you can be in Korea) with a pregnant wife, while Ye-joon becomes a lonely stockbroker. But this class and lifestyle divergence don’t mean nothin’; one comes immediately whenever the other calls, even if it means putting hold important tasks like, uh, sex. Glorious third-trimester sex.
Lee proceeds to put this friendship to the test and then some, but my strongest reaction wasn’t so much to the ensuing near-Greek moral struggle as it was to the relationship itself. None of the young male products of middle-class America I know really even
have friends; not friends like this. They might have had their circle of dawgs in childhood and adolescence, but sooner or later they get siphoned off by girlfriends and wives and then descend into private hells of isolation where nothing can possibly satisfy except the next unsatisfying woman to come around the bend. Jae-moon and especially Ye-joon don’t wind up in a much happier place, but at least they didn’t just drift there.

And if we’re speaking of both melodrama and dead children, we must speak of
Chang-dong Lee’s Secret Sunshine. Lee has lately been acknowledged as the master of this stripe of emotionally heightened 21st-century Korean film, which even a quick read of the plot synopses of his filmography suggests is true: “Starts with the suicide of the protagonist and uses reverse chronology to depict some of the key events of the past 20 years of his life that led to his death.” “A suburban woman in her 60s begins to grow an interest for poetry while struggling with Alzheimer's disease and her irresponsible grandson.” “The difficult romance between a mildly mentally disabled man who was just released from jail after a two and a half year sentence for involuntary manslaughter and a woman with severe cerebral palsy.”
This, his best-known picture, has more to do with the struggle for acceptance into closed societies, the one-upsmanship of repentance, and the tacky excesses of Korean christian groups. For a while, I was sure this was going to be another (and thus an inferior) version of
Hirokazu Kore-eda’s Maborosi, presenting us as it does with a widow who moves to a small town, young son in tow. But where Kore-eda’s widow finds an imperfect renewal in her life-reboot, Lee’s finds that she’s only just entered her world of hurt.
From what I’ve read, Lee is something of a Kubrickian taskmaster on the set, barking difficult, unclear order to his actors over and over and over again until they’re actually overcome by the despair he’s bent on capturing. To be sure, the story puts young Shin-ae through a wringer of almost implausible pressure, and if you want to make that credible — so says one directorial school, anyway — you’ve got to apply some of that pressure yourself, in real life. To the extent that the film is about Shin-ae’s suffering, I have to admit that Lee nailed it, but it seems to me that the most interesting parts lie elsewhere, sometimes partially obscured.
Bottoming out about two-thirds of the way through, Shin-ae caves in to her pharmacist’s insistence that she join the local Christian prayer group. There she undergoes a sudden conversion, which appears surprisingly stable until she’s comes up against the tricky issue of forgiveness. All ready for that flood of virtuous feeling that can only come from turning the other cheek to those who have done you wrong, she finds that the one who’s done her wrong has, himself, converted — and claims to have already gotten word of his being forgiven, straight from the Man Upstairs. Hence the short turnaround time between Shin-ae’s first religious epiphany and first religious crisis.
I’ve long been fascinated by the hold Christianity has taken in Korea. From the outside, the country can at times look like one big megachurch, but, as I recall, only about 30 percent of the population actively subscribes to the teachings of Jesus and Company. That figure doesn’t sound like much, but it’s bewilderingly high by East Asian standards. Parts of
Secret Sunshine seem to offer a commentary on this along the lines of “easy come, easy go,” but I’d be hard pressed to draw out an overall judgment on the religion. The group that draws Shin-ae in — or welcomes her in, if you see it that way — comes off more than a little loony, expressing their zeal through that distinctively unconvincing aesthetic, hollow plastic-y grandeur. Yet Shin-ae’s newfound beliefs really do appear to part her clouds. Until they don’t, that is. Lee refuses to resolve her issues with faith, fate, and fatality, which is only good filmmaking, since they’re inherently irresolvable. But I suppose that’s what religion dines out on.